Thursday, October 16, 2014

A Family Get-Together


John's family used to get together pretty much every Thanksgiving; not everyone always made it, but it was nice. After his mother died, that kind of fell by the wayside. No particular reason....it just seemed like the motivation wasn't there anymore. Well...with my family, when one or more of us is going somewhere, we just throw it out there...sort of "Here's where we'll be..if you can make it...join us!" and as a result you may find a group of Burton relatives here, there and everywhere at random times. I decided earlier this year that it was high time John's family did the same....so we suggested a get together at Disney's Ft. Wilderness. I just felt it was something important that they needed to do. Two of John's sisters have not been speaking to one another for several years...and I thought this might be a good way to get the two of them together; and maybe talking again. I suggested that being with the whole group would take the pressure off and without making a big deal out of it...the two of them could at least start talking again.

Brenna and Megan happy to be back at Fort Wilderness Campground again after many years

The majority of those asked said October would be best...so Brenna and I picked a weekend in October and took it from there. Planning didn't always go smoothly; (as you know if you read past blogs....)but I decided I was just going to keep on going and even though the whole group wouldn't be there...we'd have fun with those that did make the trip. I am so glad we did!
Lori was gung-ho from the very beginning. She managed to get 3 of her 4 kids there, as well as her dad and step-mother and her brother and most of his family.

We suggested Ft Wilderness at Disney World, because we have had many good times there over the years. I figured there was a variety of accommodations...from cabins, to tent and camper sites, to the Wilderness Lodge. I had hoped we could get a group together in the cabins...and even though that didn't happen, it all worked out. Turns out our cabin with a few extra tables and chairs set up on the deck worked. Most of the Alabama and Georgia group stayed at the Wilderness Lodge. We met up there on Friday night.
Bill, Sara( his great-niece), Kathy talking to Bishop (great-great nephew) and Sara's husband , Lance.
We lucked out with a weekend of perfect weather.....a little warm...but sunny and no rain was all we really cared about after a month with record rainfall!

 We didn't know exactly how we were going to manage dinner with 19 of us...but we decided to venture downstairs to the self-serve restaurant and see what they had to offer. Not only did they have
a variety of options...there just happened to be a group of empty  tables right outside with plenty of room for all 19 of us. We sat down and ate and chatted and enjoyed each others company.
Next up was getting the whole group down to the dock to catch a quick boat over to the campground. Brenna had checked the timetable and suggested that we all watch the Magic Kingdom Fireworks and the Electrical Parade from the beach at the campground. She took charge and told everyone where we needed to go. She was or designated "cruise director".
Clarissa, Harrison, Bishop, Lance, Duane,Debbie,Lori,Elliot, Sara, Lance, Gloria, Gary, John

We had perfect timing....all 19 of us were able to load up onto a boat rather quickly...along with a few extra folks.
We found a pretty good spot at the beach and everyone sat and enjoyed the fireworks and then the electrical parade. Some of the group had stayed at the Lodge before...and I think some had been to the campground...but none of them had ever been down to watch the fireworks, etc, so we had a lot of fun. Naturally...while we waited, everyone continued chatting and getting to know one another.
Our plan for Saturday was to let everyone do their own thing in the morning and then meet at our cabin by 2:30pm for our cookout.
John's brother-in-law Mac and his wife weren't sure until the last minute whether or not they were going to come for the weekend. Mac hadn't been feeling well and didn't know if he was up for driving over, etc. Well, they did come on Saturday and I am so glad they did. (I knew Lori and Gary were especially looking forward to seeing Lou and Mac). Also, John's nephew Walter and his wife, along with two of their three children arrived late Friday. So we were up to 25 people total. John and I spent a  part of the morning getting set up; until Brenna, Josh and Megan were ready to ride over to the Grand Floridian for brunch at the Park Fare Restaurant. Brenna had researched the places that offered Gluten free selections, made us a reservation...and we were off. It's always fun to go to the Grand Floridian...I just love looking around the grounds. I have been to the character brunch before...once with Megan and her friend Arielle, and another time with Brenna and Megan. It's nice.
People watching in the lobby is always fun...and I love the fresh flowers, like this beautiful fall arrangement
Disney is a top destination for kids in the Make A Wish Foundation...so they go out of their way to work with any special dietary needs, etc. Each restaurant we went in, we told them Megan was allergic to gluten and they sent one of their chefs out to talk to her. Then they would take her on a "tour"  (in this case of the buffet) and let her know what she could safely eat. Then the chef asked if she'd like pancakes or waffles.....you should have seen her eyes light up. She requested pancakes...chocolate chip if possible.
gummy worms were an extra touch...she could have done without them...but this giant pancake made her happy!
I noticed two young teens at the next table glancing over at her pancake....they were wondering how Megan managed to get that! hahah Let me tell you....she ate every last bite. When she spotted the chef later, she walked over and thanked him and told him how much she had enjoyed it.
We also enjoyed acting like kids....(thanks to Josh for taking the pictures of all three of us)


After our brunch we had to get back over to the campground to finish setting up for the big event.
John was planning to cook hamburgers and chicken. Debbie & I had  made a couple of side dishes. Brenna and Josh had contributed a bunch of sodas, Lou and Mac brought the pickles, mustard, Ketchup....everyone contributed something.
Kathie brought a birthday cake, because as it just so  happened that Gary's 80th birthday was October 10th. We were so happy to be able to share that celebration with him...Lori and his son Walter, plus their families. We were also celebrating Lori's birthday ( Oct 15th) and Steve's 16th birthday.

John and I had an assortment of games on hand to keep everyone busy. Al let us borrow a pop-up tent and a Corn Hole set. Amy and Reid let us borrow their Bongo Ball game and I had a couple of Ice Breakers to help get everyone talking and interacting. They actually were doing a pretty good job on their own...but I wanted to get everyone involved. I had asked everyone to bring a baby picture or a favorite older picture. We hung them up and tried to guess who was who...this kind of worked...but we had more than one of some people and about half the gang either didn't bring one...or did...but forgot it back at their hotel room. Oh well...we made do....
Next I gave everyone a pen and a stack of note cards with different questions on them. I instructed everyone to ask a question to the person next to them...and then work their way around the "room"...talking to everyone. I think they weren't too sure about this at first...but it worked out really well.
the questions weren't hard.....things like are you named after anyone? What would you do if you could try anything and not get hurt? (top answer- sky diving,)
at one point my great niece Sara said..."those guys aren't even asking questions...they're just talking"....they she laughed and said "I guess that was the point of this wasn't it."
the golf cart came in handy...hahah



Once we cleaned up from the game it was time to continue chatting and start eating. Dinner was followed by the whole group singing" Happy Birthday" to Gary (and Lori and Steve).
While a group of us sat and told stories (Mac was having a great time) Brenna  shuttled some of the group and some of the younger kids off to the pool for some fun. Between riding around on a golf cart full of people and playing on the slide, etc at the pool, the kids loved it. For Brenna and Megan...it was like old times....riding around on the golf cart.
So...our get together was a success. All the people who were worried about how it was going to work out (John...Kathie...???) realized that in the end, we all just wanted a chance to connect with one another and enjoy hearing each others stories and get to know each other a little bit better. We did. It's too bad that Sandy didn't make it...she would have enjoyed it. Maybe next time (several people are already saying "Let's do it again!") we'll get the rest of the group here...because I know they are seeing all of our photos on Facebook and saying to themselves...Hmmm...too bad we didn't go I'll start working on it. :)

Monday, September 29, 2014

It's Time to Catch Up

David with Bridget's grandson ...fooling around
 It's time to rewind and recap some of the things that have been going on for the last month or so.Back in August...my brother David had an opening at a local gallery. Derek Gores is a local artist (he does collage work...really great stuff). Since he came to the Melbourne area he has been very involved in the  local art community. He has put on many shows, including several of his own.
. In August he invited David to show his work at his (Derek's) gallery in the Eau Gallie area of Melbourne. It is in a great space...brick walls, etc. in an older building. He also scheduled an "Artist Talk" with David on Sunday , August 17th. David was a little nervous...wondering who would be interested in what he had to say about his art technique and art work....but as I told Derek..."Once he gets going, he'll be fine". Sure enough...one question from a young boy and his dad and he was on a roll. hahah The weather was terrible all day the day of the opening and it may have kept a few people home...but the turnout was still pretty good.




one of David's friends from high school...they don't see each other as often anymore- funny they both showed up to the event wearing the same t-shirt


 LongDoggers recently added a sparkling wine to their menu....and since that's what I like to drink, I had to give it a try. Here's my makeshift ice bucket....hahah. Unfortunately the brand of wine they have on their menu just doesn't seem to agree with me....so I probably won't be drinking too many more glasses. But we had some good laughs.

We've had a lot of rain and storms lately...everyone has had it...hahah We are the Sunshine State!
One afternoon last week we had a big thunderstorm rolling through...Brenna was home with the dogs. There was a big BOOOM and Petey jumped up onto the couch....trying to hide.
...John, Brenna, Josh and their friend Kristian, who was in town for the weekend

Flags donated by FPL


  September 20th, Brenna and Josh organized a local event for National Plug-in Day. Brenna worked with the city of Melbourne to secure a spot downtown. They decided to set-up in the area near the parking garage; which is where one of the charging stations is located. Once the city got involved, the mayor read a proclamation and also helped with some of the details. FPL was also a major sponsor. They provided a large hospitality tent/area. The tent had a big banner advertising the event that was visible from the road. The also had items to give away like the car flags pictured. Brenna had many phone calls back and forth with both the city and FPL...the challenge was fielding all their ideas and reminding them that while they sounded great...she was only a volunteer , representing their local group of EV drivers. That said, she managed to get donations from various groups to pay for t-shirts,  informational hand-outs, refreshments for volunteers. Check out the news clip that aired about the event. This one features Brenna.
flags from FPL

A few weeks back John and I decided to head over to Orlando for the weekend. We wanted to go check out the spot we have reserved for a family get-together next month. (at Ft. Wilderness) we got a Florida Resident special rate on a room at the Gaylord Palms . The hotel was nice and the price was right. We went to check out their Sport's Bar to watch some college football.

If you are looking for a big screen TV....they have a 37' screen. It was fun to watch the Gators WIN on the big TV. Food was decent...but all in all worth it to be able to watch all the games on TV, plus golf.
David was in another art event in Eau Gallie last month...the 100% Pure Florida show.  Right down the street from the gallery is Joan's Perfect Pie shop. Since it was the First Friday Art event...she had been baking... and not much can top walking in to a shop full of the smell of freshly baked pies!
I decided to get a 5" Chocolate Peanut Butter Pie. (small is good...otherwise I'd eat the whole BIG pie! hahah)
On to the next subject...John recently did some tile work at a shopping plaza some friends of ours own. One store happened to be a gun shop. The owner asked John if he could create a special design by the front entrance. It's been a long time since John has done anything like this; and while I'm not a big fan of guns, I must say...he did a great job. The store owner loved it.



blue skies on a late September day

also not a big fan of the yellow house paint across the street...but with the green trees and the bright blue sky....it looks pretty good

                         Back in August I caught a glimpse of fall on this tree in Cortland, NY.



I'd love to see the whole tree when it's this color!
                                                                   colorful candles in Homer, NY


my souvenir from JETS training camp....can't wait till they play the Dolphins...hahahah

     And that about sums up most of what I've been up to lately. Next up...a family reunion with            some of John's family next month...it should be fun!